"If you have issues surrounding your identity, those issues will not go away if you "make it". They will be there until they are hunted down and identified and dealt with... Success doesn't fix anything. We have the same problems and compulsions and addictions, only now we have more stress and more problems and more pressure. Many people react to and are driven by these deep, unspoken forces. They are strong and dictate huge areas of our lives. And it is possible to be a good Christian and go to church services and sing the right songs and jump through the right hoops and never let Jesus heal your soul"